Posts Tagged ‘teens online’

9Jan

part 2: what every Christian parent needs to know about Facebook

cyberbullying, Christian parenting, Facebook, Christians online, social networking and teens, internet safety, teens and Facebook, internet filtering, staying safe online

whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. ~Phil. 4:8


This is the second in a three-part series on parents, teens, and Facebook.

By Toni Birdsong
This week we’re going to dive deeper into some savvy ways you as a parent can stay ahead of the cyber curve and help your teens enjoy the upsides of Facebook and avoid (or manage) the downsides.

The goal of this series isn’t to teach you how to spy on your teen or question every move he or she makes. The goal is to encourage you as a parent to simply get involved and equip your teen to live a godly, honorable and safe life online. Once you have a sound foundation of teaching with your teen—some of these suggestions may not apply. Every family and every circumstance will differ.

12 Facebook Tips for Christian Parents

1. Communication is key. Talk openly and often about the privilege and responsibility that comes with using Facebook (and being online) and the consequences of breaking the rules. Remember, Rules without Relationship = Rebellion. The Facebook conversation is an ongoing one—not a one-time thing, which makes Facebook an opportunity to build a deeper relationship with your teen so go for it!


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11Oct

Are you leading technology in your family or is it leading you?

family technology, internet safety, christians online, Jesus Christby Toni Birdsong
I never thought as deeply about King David until I became the mother of a teenager. As a parent raising kids in a wired world, I can relate to David—only the Goliath I’m looking at is technology. I’m not as seasoned or as certain as I thought I would be at this point in my parenting career. In fact, some days, it’s as if someone changed out the script I thought I had aced then pushed me out on to the stage to perform anyway.

I sometimes wonder: Am I really anointed? Can I really take this giant?


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13Jan

a family covenant to keep technology in check

“. . . You come against me with sword and spear and javelin,
but I come against you in the name of the Lord Almighty. . . ”
~ 1 Samuel 17:45, NIV


I never thought as deeply about King David until I became the mother of a teenager. Until then, David was just a little felt guy haphazardly placed in front of a big felt guy on a Sunday school storyboard. Following some lively banter between the two crudely fashioned foes, a square rock to the forehead, and a few over-acted shrieks, the giant always came crashing down.


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